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| Yes, that's me. In the porthole of a cruise ship. I make no apology for this. |
Do you ever apologize for things that you shouldn’t? I have been known to apologize for: forgetting to put on my make-up; the condition of my thighs; wearing a dress my date didn't like; the weather; making mistakes in a piano performance; having fun when someone else wasn't.
Resolved: From this day forward, I apologize ONLY for the things I do wrong, NOT for being my imperfect, quirky, occasionally outrageous self. Here, in no particular order, is a list of 47 things YOU shouldn’t apologize for, either.
- Doing what makes you happy.
- Using big words.
- Using bad words (in the appropriate context).
- Going out with your friends.
- Staying home when everyone else wants to go out.
- Your lack of education.
- Your less-than-marketable graduate degree.
- Struggling financially.
- Being successful.
- Feeling how you feel.
- Stating your true feelings.
- Crying when you need to.
- Your penchant for the color purple.
- Your tiara.
- Your closet full of impractical shoes.
- The feather extension in your hair.
- Walking away from a job that makes you unhappy.
- Walking away from an abusive relationship.
- Doing your best in a relationship that didn’t make it anyway.
- Being single.
- Going to a restaurant and dining alone.
- Your tattoo.
- Your belly button ring.
- Taking risks.
- Telling the truth.
- Wearing your pajamas all day.
- Listening to 80’s rock.
- Watching a chick flick.
- Reading a romance novel.
- Avoiding people who have hurt you.
- Not being attracted to someone who is attracted to you.
- The extra ten pounds you are carrying around.
- Demanding respect.
- Not putting up with bad behavior from others.
- Having high standards when it comes to relationships.
- Being frugal.
- Treating yourself to something special.
- Not knowing how to do something.
- Being really good at something.
- Telling the truth.
- Refusing to compromise your integrity.
- Changing your mind.
- Resting when you are tired.
- Your crazy family.
- Being proud of your children.
- Helping others.
- Your faith.
Can you think of anything else?